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Love me, love my vagina.
Wikimedia Commons/Vinayaraj
Speaking of body image, I was more than slightly taken aback when I read that more and more women are having elective vagioplasty. If you’re not familiar with the term, let me fill you in. Vagioplasty is “a procedure that aims to tighten up a vagina that’s become slack or loose from vaginal childbirth or aging.” Think of it as a face-lift for the Cha Cha.
I have to tell you that I’ve been so worried about my ever-expanding ass that I hadn’t even considered that my downtown area might be in need of a major overhaul.
And quite honestly, I don’t want to think about it. 45 years and 3 child-births later, my vagina is what it is. It’s like an old leather jacket- broken in, soft, and comforting. I’ve always been opened minded to the idea of cosmetic surgery, but to be obsessed with the state of my lady garden seems borderline neurotic.
Carl Jung said, “The most terrifying thing is to accept oneself completely.” Even one’s vagina.
Well that’s all I’ve got. Be kind to yourself today!
Becky
Related articles
- For Mother’s Day I would like a new Vagina please… (hdfloyd73.wordpress.com)
- Lawmaker Uses Vagina as Synonym for Woman (politicalwire.com)
“Permanently and inevitably flawed…” ~Amy Bloom
Photo credit: Wikipedia
We women are obsessed with our bodies. Whether it’s our wrinkles or our butts or our lovely varicose veins, we can’t stop critiquing and trying to improve. To wit:
- Americans spend more than 40 billion a year on diet and beauty products
- 8 out 10 women are not happy with at least one aspect of their physical appearance
- The average American woman is 5’4″ and 140 pounds
- The average American model is 5′ 11″ and 117 pounds
- The current media ideal of thinness is achieved by less than 5% of the female population
And it gets worse. We pass along our obsession to the next generation:
- More than 50% of 10-year-old girls wish they were thinner
- 80% of 10-year-old girls have dieted and 90% of high school junior and senior women diet regularly
- Young girls are more afraid of becoming fat than they are of nuclear war, cancer, or losing their parents
What to do about it? Here are 3 simple things we can all do to feel better about ourselves in no time:
- Stop the beat-down- Would you ever tell your boss she looked fat in that dress or your friend she had sausage legs? The answer is probably no, so extend the same courtesy to yourself. ”Treat yourself as you would treat others, and you’ll find negative thoughts will lessen over time,” explains Leslie Goldman, body image expert.
- Get rid of all the things that make you feel less than- negative friends, fashion mags with photo shopped supermodels, or TV shows that portray unrealistic women with unrealistic lives.
- And most importantly, don’t compare yourself to others. Beauty comes in all shapes and sizes!
And what can you do for the girls in our lives?
- Compliment them on qualities other than looks.
- Talk about the unrealistic sizes of women in the media.
- Encourage them to get moving and get messy.
How do you help the women around you feel better about themselves? Please share your strength!
Love,
Becky
