Playing Dress Up
I’ve realized something not so flattering about myself. I have a really hard time taking criticism, especially when it comes to parenting or my kids.
Even a relatively benign comment like, “Hey, do you think he should be listening to his iPod at the dinner table?” makes me feel like this sometimes:
A kitten crying. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)
And I’ve realized it’s because while I look like this:
I often feel like this:
dress-up (Photo credit: nuanc)
And I feel a little guilty that I squandered my youth doing this:
Party (Photo credit: Moyan_Brenn_be_back_on_Jan_20th)
When my time would’ve been better spent like this:
Photo credit: edenpictures
And there’s a lot of pressure to be this:
Cover of Super Woman
When some days all I can muster is this:
But what I do have is a whole lot of this:
And a willingness to do this:
So maybe it’ll turn out okay.
Do you ever feel like you’re playing dress up?
Thank you to my friends, family, and this incredible community for all of the love and support. We really don’t have to do it alone!
With a grateful heart,
Becky
P.S.- Very much I love you, Joe L. This is quite an adventure we’re on and I’m thankful everyday for your patience and support.
Posted on January 22, 2013, in Home, Relationships & Family and tagged family, Honesty, Parenting, Relationship, self knowledge, self-doubt, Self-esteem. Bookmark the permalink. 12 Comments.
“Since when did I become an adult?” Is something I say often. You, my friend, are not alone! My best comeback to an argument is making “a raspberry” sound – I know, very mature, right? Love the pictures because it does capture the feeling
So glad you’re here, Tavia. It’s a great to feel connected and know that raspberries are a perfectly acceptable way to reply in an argument- LOL.
Thanks for your comment and making me smile!
Love,
Becky
Becky,
Thank you for your post. For me, this is about being comfortable in my own skin; that my authentic self is good enough…even to disagree with those I love. Yet sometimes I still struggle with this, and find it difficult to speak my truth in a way that not only honors my true feelings but also considers the feelings of others. It is a journey. Today I am grateful for tools that help be do this such as pray, pause, proceed. I also try to remember that the longer I nurture the authentic woman inside of me the more confident she becomes and I can speak my truth without fear or regret, or malice.
Authenticity is an art, one that may take the rest of my life to master. But each real exchange brings me one step closer.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Love,
Becky
So needed this laugh this morning after a night of nit picking. Literally, my daughter has lice. Several times I thought, ” I wish someone else was the mom right now”.
Oh Mary, I’ve been there and it’s awful! I’m glad you were able to laugh despite and take the time to share. You’re support is so appreciated- I am with you in spirit as you tackle the pesky pests!
Love,
Becky
Becky–So cute…and so relevant! Thanks for sharing this….
And you are most definitely loved
Awww, Thank you Cori. I appreciate it!
You are what you are. Is that right? You are kind, loving, and you have grown up to be a beautiful woman inside and out. Love You. Thanks for taking me along on your journey.
Thanks Mom, I love you!
Becky this was great! As a mom I try to be so perfect but often feel like I’m playing dress up in a grown up world I don’t fit into. I applaud your putting yourself out there! Thank you for the laughter and inspiration. Whle a raspberry is
definitely needed sometimes its an expletive that comes out of my mouth!
Thank you for the comment, you made my morning!