Warren Matson
Hello, and welcome to lipstick-chat. My name is Warren Matson, and you can find my bio here on the site so I won’t bore you with that. I will, however, tell you what you can expect to see from me on my weekly blog.
My work as a Therapist focuses a great deal on children and families and in order to set goals, I have to assess and determine where the families needs are. As a result I have a large number of women who I counsel. Over the years I have found that a general theme always emerges. Now don’t get mad right away ladies- Hear me out! The general theme is that a large number of women easily fall into a victim stance, and in doing so, they react. When they react, they give away their power.
Now I will assume you are thinking, “How?!” When you cry, or yell, or threaten, how often do you get responses from your man or your children, directly or indirectly, that imply you are too emotional, too needy, too controlling, too sensitive? And then, don’t you just want to activate your laser and hit them between the eyes, picturing the pile of ashes that once were your significant other or children!
Now be honest ladies- you have all been there, WE have all been there. The good news is that I am here to help you learn how to maximize the control you have, let go of the control you don’t, and build confidence so that you know that despite how angry, desperate or vulnerable you might feel, you know how to act in a way that gets you the results that you want!
As we begin this process, you may want to laser me as well, but in time you will come to love me! (At least that’s what my clients tell me!) Why? Because I won’t lie to you, patronize you or judge you! We are all on a journey and none of us know what we know until we know it! I will help you on your journey if you decide you want to take the trip!
Thank you for reading and I look forward to sharing in your lives as we move ahead! Growth can seem overwhelming but it is always exciting! So here we go!
Posted on June 27, 2012, in General Information. Bookmark the permalink. 13 Comments.
Wow. I think I already love you…can’t wait to read more!
Thanks Mary! There is always more and the feedback is encouraging! It makes me feel like a silly kid! “They like me! they really like me!”
I look forward to your future comments!
Warren
Sounds good. I like the part about not lieing, patronizing or judging. Now add not sugar coating it and I’ll be even happier! Lol
A mild hot sauce works better then sugar in these instances!
I’m a pretty direct person so giving it to me straight works well. Can’t wait to hear more!
I am with mary~ I am ready to learn how not to react with yelling, i need my power back, looking forward to more
thanks kat
You can get it back! If you have not read my book grab it on my web site. It will give you a jump start to what you are hearing here.
I just want to know how to work the laser. Kidding. Looking forward to reading more from Warren and Fee. Excited about tomorrow’s introduction too!
I know, right? The fun part is we can incinerate in our mind, then say or do the right thing but still smile when we picture that pile of ash!
Your comments ring true instinctively. I have been told by a trusted counselor that I am very powerful. Cool – guess we all have that potential. But I was also warned that at times I misuse that power esp with my husband. Ouch! I look forward to listening and learning from you.
We do have that potential! I will touch on that next week!
What do you have a camera in my house, a hidden microphone!?…I hear what you’re saying and believe me you-you’re on to something!! you got my attention..looking forward to this inspirational blog site…thanks Mary for recommending!
I all ready do love you Warren since you are my brother, I will always love you. I love your comments, you will be so good with this blog. I look forward to seeing what you have to say. I’m sure I’ll learn something from you too. Your never too old to learn is my motto. Good luck , you know I’ll always have your back. Love you always, your sister, Vicki