Hello, and welcome to lipstick-chat. My name is Warren Matson, and you can find my bio here on the site so I won’t bore you with that. I will, however, tell you what you can expect to see from me on my weekly blog.
My work as a Therapist focuses a great deal on children and families and in order to set goals, I have to assess and determine where the families needs are. As a result I have a large number of women who I counsel. Over the years I have found that a general theme always emerges. Now don’t get mad right away ladies- Hear me out! The general theme is that a large number of women easily fall into a victim stance, and in doing so, they react. When they react, they give away their power.
Now I will assume you are thinking, “How?!” When you cry, or yell, or threaten, how often do you get responses from your man or your children, directly or indirectly, that imply you are too emotional, too needy, too controlling, too sensitive? And then, don’t you just want to activate your laser and hit them between the eyes, picturing the pile of ashes that once were your significant other or children!
Now be honest ladies- you have all been there, WE have all been there. The good news is that I am here to help you learn how to maximize the control you have, let go of the control you don’t, and build confidence so that you know that despite how angry, desperate or vulnerable you might feel, you know how to act in a way that gets you the results that you want!
As we begin this process, you may want to laser me as well, but in time you will come to love me! (At least that’s what my clients tell me!) Why? Because I won’t lie to you, patronize you or judge you! We are all on a journey and none of us know what we know until we know it! I will help you on your journey if you decide you want to take the trip!
Thank you for reading and I look forward to sharing in your lives as we move ahead! Growth can seem overwhelming but it is always exciting! So here we go!